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Reasons Why Your Relationship Don't Last

Many relationships these days take a drastic turn after few months.
Most times it's not intended, or planned by the partners but it becomes unavoidable so as to save the friendship that once existed.
These nosedive does not just happen it may be as a repetition of some characters or attitudes which one or both spouse detest.
Relationships are like newborns and must be handled as such else it will not survive.
Your relationships don't last because of these reasons listed below;
1. You do not take each other into consideration before making vital decisions:
As little as this may seem it has a way of making the other person feel insignificant or useless, the next thing on their mind will be how to exit the relationship. It may even start building inferiority complex in them. Making them feel they are valueless and no one wants to stay where they are irrelevant.
2. You did not take out time to check out your compartibility:
Many a times people jump into a relationship immediately they feel small butterflies in their stomach, not realizing that with time those will fly away as they came and they will be left with reality to face. Whether we like it or not truth is we cannot be compatible with everyone no matter how much we like them initially. True colors will start unfolding with time.
3. You do not realize that they have a mind of their own:
Yes most times we get blinded with love that we forget to remember that we are still dealing with humans that have their senses intact and hence should have a mind of their own. So, most times when making decisions we should let them give their input, argue with ours and not necessarily agree with us on all things.
4. You are not open to change:
Some of us have grown so rigid with time that we do not realize how important change is to is and the world at large. When you are letting someone into your heart and space at large you must bear in mind that certain changes must take place with time because of individual differences. You should be ready to adjust some things to accommodate the other. Relationships are all about little compromises from time to time.
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